A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert. During somepoint of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face.
The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand: TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE. They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him.
After he recovered from the neardrowning, he wrote on a stone: TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE. The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, "After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone,why?" The other friend replied "When someone hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away.
But, when someonedoes something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it
."LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND AND TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them.
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I have to say this so just bear with me even if you think it is not important. Actually after the incident on saturday, I am happy we all trashed it out and we ended it well. And well honestly i am still guilty over it that i have to make so many people upset. I would like to say sorry to Chujie and Wendi, dun have the courage to sms them to say sorry. But I didnt mean to make them so angry.
But whatever it is over is over i guess. I just needed to say SORRY. Let the thing blow like the sand. Some things cannot be forgotten but let it just blow like the wind and move on from there. Coz we have carved on stone that we are friends. Let this "quarrel" make us stronger not weaker.
Life is short. Live for the moment coz we may not have tomorrow. Thank god we are all healthy to enjoy life.
Cindy